On the surface, wives seem to be passive recipients in their sex life, and many people think that women have no sexual ideas. After all, this sexual error is often hidden in undiscovered places, but in fact quietly erodes the couple's life.
Secondly, due to the rich and diverse sexual reactions and patterns of female sexuality, personal differences are large, and the misunderstanding of sexual concepts is often concealed.
Since women generally tend to combine the quality of sex, love and marriage, wives tend to consider more factors of love and marriage when evaluating sexual life, but ignore or deny the role of sexual concepts. There are three main sexual misconceptions that women commonly have.
Think of sex as a simple devotion
This is first manifested in the lack of sufficient awareness and understanding of one's own physiological structure, sexual function and sexual response. With the spread of family planning and women's health work, wives are increasingly knowledgeable about contraception, pregnancy and women's diseases, but due to the limitations of tradition and custom, more than half of wives do not know what the most sensitive part of women is, and 40 per cent do not know or do not know what women's orgasms are
Is this because sexual knowledge is hard to come by? I'm afraid not. More than 200 books on sex have been published in our country, and almost all headquarters have talked about these common senses. However, there are few female readers, few female buyers, and very few women disseminating such knowledge.
Why not learn when it is necessary? One of the main reasons is that many wives believe that since the husband dominates sexual life, he should learn about sex, he is responsible for the harmony of sexual life, and even only he tries to satisfy himself. In the final analysis, wives often "marry chickens with chickens, marry dogs with dogs" in sexual life. Now that I have fulfilled my obligation to "dedicate," it is up to him to bring about harmony.
This concept of pure "dedication" of sex will bring about several undesirable results:
l. When encountering rough or even sexual abuse by her husband, the wife lacks both the inner motivation to resist and the knowledge and methods to promote her change.
2. When the general life is not harmonious, the wife is easy to blame the husband, but aggravate the conflict. A significant number of husbands who suspect premature ejaculation are actually aggravated by the responsibilities of their wives.
3. Even if sex is smooth, it is difficult for a simple dedicated wife to experience its pleasure and value, but will produce indifference and alienation, which will naturally exacerbate the feeling of poverty, and eventually form a vicious circle.
4. Even if it is more coordinated, the wife may lack the internal motivation to continuously improve and improve, which is easy to cause psychological fatigue (boredom, desirelessness, avoidance, etc.) on both sides in the long run.
The correct concept of sex you need to know
1. Be hygienic. Including men's bathing, the foreskin must be turned and washed. Do not touch a woman's body without washing her hands.
Leave nails without inserting into the body. Even for foreplay.
2. It is best to wear a condom. One is to eliminate the possibility of being shot, the other is for hygiene, men are external genitalia, the wrinkles of pubic hair eggs also have a lot of bacteria, women are internal genitalia, directly through the genitals, protect the women who love, do not get carried away by desire, wear a jacket.
3. Resolutely do not have anal sex. The harm of cross is actually many, such as bleeding, exit laceration, prolapse, etc., even if your body is not able to accept crossing, it is very unhygienic, easy to infect the anus and the vagina near the anus, and I want to vomit the most.
4. Pose foreplay must arrive. Take care of women's moods, immediately ask each other's mood, rush when you should rush, stop when you should stop.
5. No promiscuity. There must be a noble fear of AIDS and the like
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