Mistakes in sex are often the reason why both partners do not master the rhythm of sex. Without sex, we think that each other is not good, but excessive sex is not only bad for the body, but also very harmful to the psyche. Let's see the best frequency of sex.
First, sexual life is harmonious
In order to harmonize sexual life, couples must know basic sexual knowledge, especially the normal differences in the functioning of men and women.
Otherwise, the husband and wife will not be able to cooperate with each other tacitly. In summary, the functions of men and women are as follows:
(1) Male libido is strong, vigorous, and can cause sexual excitement at any time Female libido is relatively weak, and sexual excitement is related to the menstrual cycle (generally high libido before and after ovulation and premenstruation). A small number of women have weak sexual desire before marriage, and their sexual desire gradually increases during sexual life after marriage.
(2) Male impulses are fast, enter pleasure orgasm quickly, and sexual desire disappears quickly. Generally speaking, normal men from sexual intercourse to ejaculation, it takes about 2~6 minutes (or 3~15 minutes) for female impulses to be very slow, generally it takes 10~30 minutes (or 5~15 minutes) to reach a pleasure orgasm, orgasm lasts for a long time, and the sexual desire disappears very slowly.
(3) Male sexual desire is concentrated on the sexual organs, and female sexual desire with very high sexual desire is extensive and complex, including laughter, warmth, caressing, etc., and only after reaching a certain excitement can there be sexual intercourse requirements. The ideal sex life is when both partners orgasm at the same time, the woman reaches orgasm, and the man ejaculates. After a woman reaches orgasm, it does not affect the continuation of sexual intercourse, and unlike men, women can reproduce the orgasm of pleasure in a short time.
Second, the frequency of sexual intercourse
The appropriate frequency of sexual intercourse is a difficult question to answer. The strength of sexual desire varies from person to person, and the same person is also affected by many factors such as age, physique, personality, occupation, climate, environment, and feelings. Therefore, the number of sexual intercourse cannot be mechanically regulated and must be adjusted appropriately according to the specific circumstances of both parties. During the newly married period, the libido is strong and the frequency of sexual intercourse is frequent. A few months before marriage, generally 2~3 times a week. As we age, it will gradually decrease to once in 1~2 weeks. People with poorer health have fewer times. Couples reunite after a long absence, often have more frequent sexual intercourse, which is human, but it is also necessary to exercise proper moderation.
Whether sex life is moderate or not is different for each couple, it is related to each couple's work, their own situation.
High-quality sex life has a good integration effect on the couple's feelings, what kind of sex is the best model?
Best Sex Mode
1. 6-8 o'clock in the morning, the best time for sex
According to the traditional view, the night adds charm and should be the perfect time. However, sexologists see it differently. They think the ideal time is to start at 6-8 a.m. Waking up in the morning with the highest concentration of sex hormones in the female body can bring the greatest joy. Secondly, it is a first-class means of enriching energy and mobilizing feelings.
2. Make sound, the highest quality
A state court in the United States took up a peculiar case and fined a young woman for yelling loudly during sex. This really wronged her. Swedish scientists believe that the sound quality is more than double that of the silent and cannot be punished. Studies have shown that shouting loudly stimulates sexual impulses more than any visual image.
3. The ideal duration of sex is about 10 minutes
Studies have shown that a minute or two is too short to satisfy the sexual demands of both parties, especially women.
Most couples believe that 3-7 minutes of sex is "acceptable"; 10 minutes is ideal; If it exceeds 13 minutes, even if it is "long", it is easy to be exhausted and uninterested.
So, who has the final say? Sex and love both originate in the brain. American neurologist Daniel Armen has been engaged in related research for 25 years. In his opinion, the brain is the commander-in-chief of sex. We feel sex because specific neurochemical systems in the brain bring us these feelings. In this issue, this edition will reveal to readers how thoughts of love and sex arise in the brain and how they wander our brains.
4. See and smell, sexy receiver
When choosing a partner, men pay attention to the opposite sex who is beautiful in appearance, flirtatious in body, and causes fantasy, women are attracted to men with good fathers and good husbands, even if the face is ordinary, the clothing is simple.
Daniel Amen explained that women are more aware of the criteria for choosing a mate than their appearance. In contrast, men's standards are simpler and easier to achieve. At the sight of a loved one, dopamine, the neurotransmission medium in the male brain, acts quickly, igniting areas responsible for pleasure, action, and reward. Men will have a racing heartbeat and have indescribable urges.
Men like to look at beautiful women, not superficial, but strong in the area of the brain responsible for vision. In a survey by Emory University in the United States, men saw 30 minutes of erotic content, and the above areas were completely lit up.
For example, beautiful girls ask men for help, and they will have silly hat behavior. Daniel Amen said.
The easiest way to overcome the dictatorship of the optic nerve is to mobilize logical thinking. Men ask themselves why they do it, what are the benefits such questions can draw attention from a brief visual urge.
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