This kind of touch during love can make the climax come

There is a certain truth in the old saying that "women are like wolves at thirty and tigers at forty". Especially at the age of 35, it is a watershed for men and women. Since then, men's sexual ability has decreased and women's sexual ability has increased. This "sex scissors difference" is an important reason for the imbalance of sexual life of couples at this age.

"Yin flourishes and Yang declines" of middle-aged couples

In the andrology consulting room of the hospital, the doctor asked Mr. Mo, 35, what he was seeing. Mr. Mo said that he was not ill. His wife forced him to come. His wife said that he had premature ejaculation. The doctor asked: "How long can you have sex every time?" Mr. Mo said: "Five or six minutes." The doctor said that men often have sex for less than three minutes, which is premature ejaculation. Mr. Mo is not sick.

The doctor inquired carefully and learned that Mr. Mo was the same age as his wife. In the past, his wife was always shy when having sex. In the past two years, she gradually opened up and began to be dissatisfied with Mr. Mo. The doctor pointed out that middle-aged couples should face a problem - "sex scissors".

What is the "sex scissors difference"? Generally speaking, men's sexual desire is stronger than women's at the age of 18 to 25, reaching the peak at the age of 25 to 30, and most of them are active in sexual life. After the age of 35, their sexual desire begins to decline. A French study has investigated 1408 healthy men aged 20 to 60 years, and found that the concentration of androgen in men after the age of 40 decreased by at least 25%. As soon as the concentration of androgen decreases, men's interest, demand and frequency of sexual life significantly decrease.

Men after the age of 35 years old are not as easy to erect as before because of work fatigue, slow blood flow throughout the body, and decreased muscle tension. Even if there is a requirement for sexual life, penis erection also takes a long time, with reduced hardness, shorter duration, and reduced ejaculation strength.

On the contrary, women are in the hazy stage of sexual desire at the age of 18 to 25 years old. By the age of 35, their sexual desire gradually increases and surpasses that of men, turning from passive to active. As the old saying goes, "women are like wolves at thirty and tigers at forty", that's why.

It can be seen that the age of 35 is a watershed. Men's sexual desire changes from high to low, while women's sexual desire changes from low to high. The physiological changes of both sexes are like scissors, which is called "sex scissors difference". Some experts vividly said that middle-aged couples have become "Yin flourishes and Yang declines", which is another interpretation of "sex scissors difference".

"Sex scissors difference" can be reduced

Generally speaking, it takes 2 to 6 minutes for most men to reach orgasm, while the time for women to reach orgasm is slightly longer than that of men, mostly about 10 minutes. It can be seen that there is a "time difference" of four or five minutes between men and women when they meet the peak of sex appeal. After entering middle age, the appearance of "sex scissors difference" makes the "jet lag" more obvious.

However, this issue is not immutable. Men can deliberately delay the arrival of orgasm through various means and techniques, because the best sexual life of men and women should be synchronized. In ancient China, the technique of sexual intercourse emphasized that men can master and control the sexual rhythm, so that both husband and wife can obtain full pleasure.