Adults' rooms are a matter of privacy and how embarrassing it is to accidentally be witnessed by a child. No matter how small a child is, seeing the room has a bad psychological effect and may imitate the movements of the room. Therefore, for the healthy growth of children, parents should provide sex education to prevent adverse consequences.
It is not uncommon for children to inadvertently witness intercourse due to poor living conditions (parents, children living together or even sharing the same bed) or because of insufficient parental checks. The embarrassing question is what is the impact of children witnessing adults' rooms on sexual psychology?
According to the study, children of different ages unconsciously witness adult sexual intercourse, have different moods, and react very differently.
Children aged 3~4
There are many people who sleep with their parents, and there are also people who sleep together. After the child goes to bed, the parents do the work of the room. The couple forgets sex, moves too much, too intensely, or is good at forgetting shapes, the joy that comes out of sex, awakens the child.
The child woke up unclear, sleepy eyes blurry, saw the movement of the parents' room, was also the second monk, scratched his head. It's incredible that the child doesn't sleep with his parents late at night. Doze off, don't care about anything, roll over, sleep again.
After parents find that their children are awake, they should immediately stop moving and pay attention to checkpoints; If the child asks a question in a daze, explain it calmly and sensitively, and prevaricate so that the past can be covered up and the impression that the child witnessed sexual intercourse can be easily diluted. However, if it goes on again and again, over time, the child will be full of doubts, and even change from unintentional witness to intentional witnessing. So far, things have gotten complicated.
Children aged 5~6 or older
Unconsciously witnessed adult sexual intercourse, not knowing the reason, not knowing its secrets, but a little curious and happy. Curiosity, wanting to find something, being happy, wanting to imitate. They wait, looking for an opportunity to witness again. They listen and speak among their peers. They asked a series of questions in front of reliable other adults. Meet the opportunity and play the game of love. Especially boys, regardless of each other's will, forcibly play love games and vulgarly imitate the movements of the room.
Children aged 10-12
Inadvertently witnessing adult sexual intercourse is no longer just a mystery and curiosity. They often compare certain sex actions with the rape actions of some sex offenders on film and television, as well as social customs and opinions, to make their own opinions. They confuse sex in the lives of legal couples with sexual violence perpetrated by illegal hooligans. They think that the father bullies the mother's husband and ravages the sister...
Ignorance and stupidity, always twin brothers. Children accidentally witness sexual intercourse, adults should not think that it is dishonorable, ugly, and shameful. Covering up with reprimands, threats is unnecessary and useless. It is necessary to tell children frankly, naturally, and generously that it is a natural human instinct for couples to have sex. Everyone grows up having sex. Unveiling the veil is not without benefits to the child's sexual and psychological health.
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