A woman who has not understood orgasm is not complete. Someone once described orgasm as "like flying to the sky". It can be seen that the pleasure of female orgasm is very violent. For women who have not experienced orgasm, we should understand more about the relevant knowledge of female genitals and control the correct way. Next, let's see how the pleasure of female orgasm is.
The "transient death" of orgasm
This is indeed a question that makes many couples feel frustrated and has no standardized answer. To make it clear, we have to start from the beginning.
About the physiological mechanism of orgasm, "transient death" is described in classic books as follows: orgasm is the shortest stage in the process of sexual reaction, lasting only a few seconds. It releases the energy of sexual desire through the involuntary spasm of muscles, thus achieving wave-like pleasure. The most sexy organ of women is the clitoral head, followed by the clitoral body, labia minora, and the outer 1/3 area of the vagina.
The orgasm feels floating
In her sexology report, the famous sexologist Haite described the female orgasm in this way: "My body feels floating, full of strength, and a surging flame devours everything violently. It is so beautiful that it is simply unacceptable extreme ecstasy.
”"I feel extremely excited - my breath is short - and my head becomes light and floating, like in a dream world, the sound is distant, and time is like stagnation."
Yes, a woman's orgasm begins with a feeling called "suspense". At that moment, she seems to be suspended in the air, usually for 1-3 seconds. This "sense of suspension" is equivalent to the "sense of unpredictability" experienced by men before orgasm (this feeling occurs when men cannot stop ejaculation). As the clitoris is constantly and rhythmically stimulated, the extremely sensitive nerves will be excited to the spinal cord, and then immediately diverted back to the orgasmic muscles in the pelvic region in the spinal cord.
Different women's orgasm response
At this stage of orgasm, no two women have the same response, although their physical experience is similar. Some women are very quiet; Some women either sigh or scream; Some bow their backs or bite something beside them, such as arms and pillow numbers. When consciousness began to recover - only a few seconds - almost all women felt warm, first in the pelvis, then in the whole body.
The art of making love
Women's multiple orgasms during sex are not a manifestation of sexual abnormality, nor are they marked as "excessive libido", "animalistic" or "non-feminine". The survey found that some women admitted that they had the psychological burden of guilt. They were worried that this feeling would pollute the purity and loftiness of marriage. The problem of experiencing orgasm is about the temperament, sexual maturity, preferences and choices of couples and the art of making love.
A woman with high libido
A newly married young woman frowned and said that her husband was a man who knew style very well and was very successful in making love every time. But recently, I am anxious about my abnormal phenomenon. Because her husband breathes beside her with infinite comfort and happiness every time he "performs his duties", and she hopes that he will continue to stay in her body and bow down on her. She feels that there is still a surging torrent roaring in her body, and hopes that her husband can continue to do it again. For this reason, she doubted whether she was suffering from hypersexuality and felt that she had become a shameless lewd woman.
Women have "multiple orgasms"
In sexual life, after the last time a woman contracted, her body quickly lost its sexual panic. Maasts and Johnson called this stage "recession".
Assuming that they do not immediately decline, but return to the plateau, and can repeatedly stimulate from the plateau to orgasm, this phenomenon is "multiple orgasms", and every woman has this potential.
The reason why women can have multiple orgasms is that there are a large number of ethereal blood vessels in their pelvis, and the contracture of a single orgasm can rarely discharge all the accumulated blood. It can be said that after the first orgasm, the woman is still full of sexual power and can continue to contract. Without a lot of stimulation, she can make the panic rise again and again to the climax point. In theory, the intensity of any orgasm she experiences depends on the amount of blood in her pelvic veins.
Women reach the peak when they climax
Sometimes the amount of congestion is small, so the climax is low; Sometimes the amount of hyperemia is large, and the climax reaches the peak. It is at this time that women are very likely to experience multiple orgasms. Sometimes because of anatomical differences, for example, the venous network of some women is not fully developed, these women are difficult to reach orgasm. The problem seemed to disappear after they gave birth to their first child. Indeed, for many women who have experienced orgasms before pregnancy, it is easier to have orgasms after childbirth. Sometimes there are multiple orgasms after the first sex. This is the so-called "pregnancy effect". This may be related to the increased energy and number of pelvic veins during pregnancy.
Women's needs are released by orgasm
Assuming that the venous congestion gradually accumulated during the sexual excitement and the plateau period is not released by the orgasm, women will have anxiety and a sense of failure in sex, resulting in serious back pain.
For example, many women will have low back pain when they are unable to have sex because of their sexual desire during menstruation. Women who often have multiple orgasms need 3-6 orgasms to relax their whole body.
A successful sexual life cannot be separated from orgasm. Assuming that you have not experienced orgasm so far, you must change yourself, create a good sexual life environment, face it with a correct attitude, and believe that you can reach orgasm through your efforts.
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