Sexual dependence is considered to be one of the main killers of killing marriage, destroying occupation and corrupting personal values. What can be done to alleviate it in daily life? Let's see.
Step 1: masturbate or help your partner masturbate
It is useless to suppress sexual desire. Masturbation can meet my needs without hurting me and others. Why not? Assuming that the needs of sexual partners are urgent, it is worth a try to assist sexual partners to masturbate, meet their needs and enjoy sexual life.
Step 2: Reduce stimulation and temptation
Cool and eye-catching pornographic websites, adult magazines, a-movies, etc. For those who are easily excited, fuelling the fire can be prevented.
Step 3: Transfer attention
If there is anything, people who kill time with sex go to the gym and need manual leisure activities. For example, go to the gym, pulley, play ball, outing, mountaineering, etc., sweat and release energy
Next advanced class, progress to the level of mind:
Step 4: Increase opportunities for gender communication
You are full of mind about the opposite sex, but don't know how to communicate with him, which brings me a lot of pressure? Relax, participate in community activities, special programs for men and women, sit on the pub chat, increase the opportunities for sexual interaction, carry out courtship, fall in love, and balance the body and mind.
Step 5: Reflect on the close relationship with your partner
Suppose you are a husband and wife, cohabitant, and stable couple, try to masturbate or assist the other half in masturbation, and assume that you can't be satisfied with each other and expand outwards. You may have a number of reasons in mind, and your sexual desire is too strong, and your dissatisfaction is just an excuse for calm and frank communication, and try to find out the cause of the emotional rift.
Expert advice:
1. Stay away from alcohol and club drugs
There is no need to explain this sentence. You can understand it, but also pay attention to the fact that the happiness pills, fairy water and other aids spread in dance halls and pubs can also destroy people's self-control and make people happy and sad. More importantly, under the urging of alcohol and drugs, it was too late or unexpected to miss the safety protection, resulting in sexual assault, unexpected pregnancy or sexually transmitted disease is not worth it.
2. Excessive libido is not an excuse for risky sexual behavior
Assume that under the excuse of my need, I am immersed in risky sexual behaviors such as multiple sexual partners, ONS, sex selling, rape, etc., without caring for myself or hurting others.
3. Don't rush to give me negative comments
Or seek help from a psychologist to find out the result of the problem.
Assuming you don't want to be addicted, try the above n ways to weaken sexual desire! There is always something suitable for you.
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